FELIWAY® Optimum 30 Day Cat Calming Plug In Pheromone Diffuser Starter Kit, 48ml - Helps Reduce Common Signs of Stress in Cats & Kittens, Enhanced Calming

I’ve had my six-year-old Siamese (Pancake) since she was two months old and she is very attached to me.We have a camera facing the front door of our home and I would often get motion alerts because she’d be sitting by the door screaming, and this was a regular occurrence every time that I was away from home.She’s not alone in the home, I also have a tabby that she grew up with and they’re buddies, but no matter what she just wanted me to be home.However, after we started using this, her anxiety seems to have gone down drastically. I almost never see her at the door screaming. She also seems more relaxed and at ease.

IT WORKS!!!! My cat suffered physical trauma from some kids. She was mentally traumatized as a result. My beloved cat that slept on my chest and woke me up every morning with nose, kisses and never met a stranger turned into a cat who hid from even the slightest sounds in my home. I could only coax her out with soft canned cat food and then she will quickly retreat under the bed. Within less than 24 hours, she was back to sleeping on my chest. Still very aware of her surroundings but I am so glad my baby is starting to act like herself. I would’ve paid double to get her confidence back.

Look, I'm not the type to leave a positive review on something that I can't prove is working, but in this case, it's a likely enough candidate to give credit where credit is (possibly) due.Our beloved eldest is perhaps the most anxious cat in existence. Before he came to live with us, he spent his youngest years being terrorized by an older, aggressive cat who would often ambush him in the litter box. He developed a lifelong fear of using it to pee (weirdly not for #2), and would try to pee literally anywhere else, be it on rugs, clothes that had fallen out of laundry baskets, hardwood, tile, cement, you name it. Any surface other than his actual box.Here's a truncated list of things we have tried to calm his anxiety/keep up with his peeing:- Different types of litters- Different styles of litter boxes- Different locations for the litter box- Litter attractants- Diet changes- Deterrent in his favorite floor spots- Enzymatic cleaners to try to remove any lingering scent- Extensive veterinary testing- Consults with behaviorists- Rewarding him when he uses the litter box (recommended by behaviorist)- Retraining in a large kennel with a litter box (recommended by behaviorist)- Calming collars- Other Feliway products- Prozac (prescribed by the vet)- Gabapentin (prescribed by the vet)Nothing worked, other than an elaborate and not entirely foolproof routine of taking him to the box personally and guarding him while he was in there. We had to do this multiple times a day, and he would still sometimes try to sneak off to do his business elsewhere.So, when we moved to a one-bedroom apartment with a lot of carpet, we were prepared to immediately lose our security deposit to his anxious peeing. We were convinced the move alone would leave him emotionally shaken to his core. We armed ourselves with some of the most highly-recommended enzyme cleaners (Rocco & Roxie), and were looking into expensive waterproof covers to put on approximately 600 sq ft worth of carpet, and then cover those with washable rugs. We were ready for battle.I called our vet to ask for a light sedative for both him and his younger brother, to make the moving day less stressful, and the tech suggested that we also get these specific Feliway diffusers. Although we hadn't had any luck with Feliway in the past, we were throwing absolutely everything we could at this, so we figured the worst they could was not work.Cut to moving day. We put both our groggy cats into the new bathroom with their litter box while the movers stomp around bringing in boxes and furniture. The second they're gone, we plug in the diffusers, let them run for an hour, and then cautiously let the cats out. Both of them are low to the ground, skittering from one room to the next in utter confusion. Eventually Anxious Cat finds a window to plop his butt in and doesn't move until dinner, but we spend the entire time watching him while we unpack, ready to jump up if he seems like he's scoping out new pee spots.By the end of the day, he hasn't used the litter box yet, and we're starting to wonder if maybe we should close him up with it in the bathroom for the night. At least there's no carpet in there. And then we realize ... we've lost sight of him. We bolt up and start canvasing the apartment, only to hear the digging of little paws in litter. Slowly, we creep to the bathroom door and peer in just in time to see him hop out of the box, giving us both a look of mild confusion as he sprints off to the window.But we weren't sure what he did. If he pooped, well, that's nothing out of the ordinary, and there was some in the box, so it could've been him or his brother. We decide to lock them in the bathroom for the night, but eventually succumbed to their piteous sobbing and let them out. Come morning, there's still no pee, but Anxious Cat is a champion at holding it until he finds the perfect spot to unleash. But finally, come afternoon, we actually manage to catch him in the act of peeing IN THE LITTER BOX. It's a monumentous occasion, and we shower him in catnip, treats and lots of play. He's delighted, and no longer slinking around with his belly to the floor. He's acting like a normal cat, cautious of his new space, but enjoying the comfort of his familiar beds and toys.It's now been two weeks, and he has done all of his business in the box, and NOWHERE ELSE in the apartment. We haven't even taken the plastic off of all of our enzyme cleaners! His anxiety is way down in general, and so is ours. We can let him out of our sight for hours at a time without worrying that soon we'll smell cat pee. This has been life-changing for him, and for us. I've never seen my little old man happier than he is now. And maybe it was just the change of scenery, the smaller space, not being able to smell the neighborhood cats who used to hang around our old house. Or maybe it's these Feliway diffusers. I honestly have no idea. But, I'm going to keep believing in their possibly magical power and keep buying the refills if that's what it takes to keep him happy, and keep our security deposit.So, why four stars instead of five, if this is (maybe) such a miracle product that has so improved the quality of life of both our cat and his human parents? Because it had ZERO effect on our younger cat. Usually, he's incredibly easygoing and adapts well to change. We weren't worried about him at all when planning the move, we figured he'd be as chill as he always is. Instead, he's been terrified and although he has no issues with using the litter box, he's spent most of these last two weeks hiding, jumping at every sound and refusing to play like he usually does. It's extremely unlike him, and it's pretty clear that the Feliway is doing nothing to help him. Which makes me think this product is very hit or miss, if it's doing anything at all.But rather than risk eternal damnation, I choose to believe in the power of Feliway, at least when it comes to our Anxious Cat (pictured above, with the carpet he has yet to ruin).

HIstory: I have a 7 month old female who, her and 3 siblings were rescued by a friend at 4 weeks. Mom was nowhere to be found and all four were in rough shape. A plea for help went out to help foster the kits until a home could be found. I agreed to foster one, became attached and decided to keep her. She needed to be bottle fed with KMR formula, had worms and severe diarrhea. Off to the VET we went and is in perfect health today. She has been spoiled with attention, toys, love and was a very loving cat who curled up around my neck when she napped. At 4 months she started becoming aggressive by attacking my face in the middle of the night for whatever reasons and drew blood. This aggression has increased to the point where it impossible to touch her. She will launch and latch onto my hand, growling, kicking & biting as if it was prey, not let go and draw blood. When she does this it is very painful and difficult to get her loose. So now I just respect her space and still show her affection but it has to be on her terms.Calming: A friend had purchased some calming collars for their cats and gave me one. That was nothing more than a Lavender walking air freshener. The only benefit it had is that I knew what room she was hiding in because the scent was very overpowering. Into the trash that went.Feliway: Researched their website, saw that is VET approved but I had a gut feeling and I was very hesitant to purchase this for $30. But, I thought I would give this a try and perhaps it will prove me wrong. My gut feeling turned out to be correct. I have been using the diffuser for 5 days now and there has been absolutely no change with her aggression.I understand that, like human beings, all cats are different and by no means am I discrediting Feliway. Perhaps 5 days isn't enough time for her?My advice, this is a 50/50. Use your judgement or go with your gut feeling. There is no guarantee that this product will work for all cats. For the cost of refills, I will not be ordering any in the future.There is a good article to read about the product on Cats.com. One paragraph states"To make it even more complicated, most of the research showing the supposed positive benefits of Feliway products was funded by Ceva Animal Health. This is the company that produces Feliway. Whilst scientific studies are bound by strict ethical rules, the results are still harder to trust."